It is an Inside Job with Bonnie Kelly

It is truly an inside job, isn't it? When we realize this and focus on this, everything can change for the better. We may very well be sabotaging on purpose. 

"Either you learn enough to where you want to change, or you hurt enough to where you have to change."

Align your inner world to the success you want in the outer world. Success in one area doesn't necessarily translate to other areas. We have to take ownership to change these things.